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One of the things I've noticed in working with couples is the difference folks have in how they approach the unknown. Some of us like to have a plan. They think about contingencies. They have lists and backup people. They read. They read a LOT. Some people don't do much planning. They trust they can handle what comes their way and will adapt should something come up. Their belief in their own abilities overrides any "what if" that might pop into their minds. Often these two p

When I first started doing couples therapy, I would strike a nerve with the assertion that you shouldn't say "thank you" for tasks done around the house. I see that as indication that someone has done you a favor. I'm guessing everyone in your relationship is an adult and is responsible for their home and its upkeep. That doesn't mean I don't encourage recognition. "That looks great!" "I'm guessing the kid's tub was a beast with all the toys in it!" "This dinner is amazing!"

Many couples wonder, “Is it time for couples therapy?” If you’re asking this question, it’s often a sign that relationship counseling could be helpful. Just like physical health, emotional connection is easier to restore when concerns are addressed early. Couples therapy can be beneficial when communication feels strained, emotional distance is growing, or conflicts feel repetitive and unresolved. Some couples notice the silence between them feels heavier than conversation, o